How to Spice Up Your Sex Life by Alicia GuinnIs your love life losing its spark? Has boredom crept into your bedroom? Don’t despair, what’s happening to you is perfectly normal. Everyone falls into sexual ruts now and then because routines, by definition, are easy and comforting. We discover one way to get ourselves or our partners off, and then we repeat. And repeat (until we put ourselves to sleep!).
Much as we’d like to wave our magic wand over your bed and restore your sex life to its former glory, there really is no one sure-fire toy or quick fix. However, with a bit of inspiration and a willingness to explore, you’ll be surprised at how a few simple changes can get you on the road to a more fulfilling sex life.
1. Know Thyself. In the quest to break out of your rut, consider yourself a private eye assigned to investigate the mysteries of your sexuality. What do you like? What do you fantasize about? Because our society defines sex so narrowly, a lot of people have trouble imagining sexual possibilities beyond their current repertoire. Start your investigation with a little research. Buy a general sex guide like The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex and take a good look at some of the activities that may have intrigued you in the past. Maybe you’ve always been curious about anal sex, or you’ve harbored a secret desire to be spanked. Give yourself permission to explore them further...
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